Thank Me Later..

The MIND matters...!!!

Worries about past & anxiety about future are the edible ingredients for a healthy messful mind. But when we try to re-define out of it, actually the memories both good or bad makes it mess..

'Live in present, not in the past or future' can be the best advice..But the better advice is 'Think of the future of the current situation you are going through'..

That is..

A situation you worry at the age of 10 may be important to you at that age but will be funny for you at the age of 30 or more...I realised this when I saw my niece was practicing her signature at her age 10, I asked her "Why are you investing much time on this which is not at all relevant for you now but needed for years later". She replied "My friends are doing the same also I need it later too so"...That  made me think, I am damn sure, this is not going to be her real signature when she has to actually register it officially because the thought process or perspectives of age 10 will not be same as the age grows. Likewise perspective about what kids wants to become in future, current needs etc are relatable examples.

Exactly copycat of the same version, We worry or invest in situations in exclusive of the limit of age and the thought process of that age..If you look back, you can count many examples for the same.. relatable.

Here is the healthy formula to feed your mind,

IN FUTURE, YOU ARE NOT THE PERSON YOU THOUGHT AT THAT PARTICULAR AGE ...

So if you strongly believe like NOW is the most toughest time then you have already started (future) laughing at you for your funny thought you strongly believe now...

It's all about MIND..

If you think of the same thing again and again, then you're unconsciously tieing yourself to that particular situation to let yourself believe IT'S THE END.

If you're in a situation that you feel like exhausted, repeat the formula, think of the examples that support the formula.Also never try to think of that moment for 1 SECOND from NOW because you can't stop LAUGHING at you for this moment..

Thank me later....!!!!